Crossing Pain Lines: Striving for the Best in Your Marriage

Pain lines: the lines between the comfortable and the uncomfortable and safe and not safe. Pain lines divide those who want God’s best, from those content to live within the scope of the mediocre. It’s the difference between the high road and the comfy road.  

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Don't Stop Dating Your Spouse

“Recently, I saw a cartoon that was significant: a man was examining the fender on his car. His wife asked, ‘How is it that you can remember every dent and notice new ones, but never remember my birthday or notice my new hairdo?’ Many women could shout ‘Amen!’ No one expects to become proficient in anything without practice and effort. Why do we expect wonderful marriages to just happen? Marriage takes a lifetime of effort to keep it fresh and inviting. 

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