Ruthie's Divine Appointment

As Ruthie was getting ready to meet someone at a local coffee shop, she felt impressed by the Holy Spirit to take one of my To Kill a Lion books with her. Okay, so here she is, a woman, knowing that she is supposed to...

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What's In a Name?

For those of you who are troubled by past or present circumstances, there is encouragement and faith in the names of Joseph’s two sons, Manasseh and Ephraim. As I was reading the account of how Joseph lost a major part...

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Alone

Several years ago Ruthie spoke at a Bible study. She relayed to me some of the struggles that the individual women were going through. I went to my computer and felt led to write a poem based on the women's struggles....

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Why I Would Do Away With the Word Repentance

Don’t get too worried—I still use the word repentance, and I still believe in repentance, but really, the word repentance comes with some baggage that God didn’t intend. The original Greek word that is translated...

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A Testimony From a Man Set Free

The following testimony was written from a man who recently found freedom from his pornorgraphy addiction.  I am thanking God for his goodness and mercy toward us!  Read on...

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The Truth About Onions

I tend to rate myself high on the discernment scale when it comes to flaky email scams and tales. I almost always can sense when a claim just isn’t true. Of course, I still check things out at Snopes.com and often reply...

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Sex in Marriage is Good

Since writing To Kill a Lion: Destroying the Power of Lust from the Root, I have come to the conclusion that many sexual problems exist because people do not understand their sexuality and therefore they fall into...

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Improve Your Marital Sex Life!

For married people, one of the safeguards against pornography is to have a healthy sexual relationship with your spouse. Sadly though, more and more I realize that most couples are not “on the same page” sexually.

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Female Sexual Addiction

One of the issues that is swiftly coming more to the surface, which has heretofore been a very secretive issue is                 FEMALE SEXUAL ADDICTION.  There are many mysteries that have been very inadequately...

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Purity and the Amish

Last night I finished reading my book on audio. What a trip! Try reading for hours out loud in a flow and then getting to the two words "Our world." I said "Ah weld," then I tried again, and it was "Ow wild", take three...

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Babies for Sex?

A reason for the To Kill a Lion initiative is magnified after watching the horrific documentary on sex trafficking in our country called Sex and Money. www.sexandmoneyfilm.com. Let me give you one fact from the...

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Living in the Power of Christ

I never cease to be amazed what churches don’t teach! As we travel here and there in our conferences and seminars, I never cease to be amazed at the multitudes (yes, multitudes!) of people who have sat in pews, in...

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Roots of Sexual Addiction

What are the Roots of Sexual Addictions? I’ve often declared throughout my counseling career, that overcoming sexual addiction is a life-transforming process. My journey to sexual freedom changed everything about me. I...

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Overcoming Addiction: A Different Kind of Treadmill

Treadmilling is the act of exerting lots of energy and ending up the same place you began. The best way to treadmill in your battle over pornography or other types of addiction is to try to control the addiction on the...

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Days of Behavior Modification are Over

Recently at one of my speaking engagements I announced that the days of behavior modification are over. The church has long depended upon and stumbled at surface management--behavior modification without heart...

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Bitter-Sweet News

A guy called me up and asked where he could get another To Kill a Lion book. I told him that he could pick it up. He lived about 1/2 hour away. When he came he introduced himself and told me that the book opened his...

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Fruit to Root

Next week I do another purity seminar for  group of guys in Spring City, PA. I often say that purity seminars are a bluff--because they are really not about purity as much as they are about the heart issues that cause...

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Women-run Society No Difference

Our church started a new Men's Frat--26 weeks every Friday morning at 6. Great turnout. Great material. We are using the new stuff created by LCBC, a mega-church in Manheim, PA. I'm also reading a book called Wild Man...

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Exciting Responses From Readers

One man writes, "I just wanted to let you know I have discovered healing in the process of addressing my pain and talking to my parents. I am not finished with the book but I have already begun to assess and practice...

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Bruce's Blog

After over 15 years of counseling men, learning new things through my personal journey, interviews and research, I am thrilled to see To Kill a Lion in print, ready to share with men. I wrote this book to take up where...

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